Dealing With Your Emotions After Your Breakup
by Alicia Robertson
So you've met the perfect girl. She's everything that you've ever dreamed of and she's come out of nowhere. She's beautiful and clever and a lot of fun to be around. You think that you really might have found someone that you want to have a quality relationship with.
Now comes the tricky part. How do you ensure that she falls for you as hard as you've fallen for her? How do you keep from making the mistakes that other guys make?
Getting past that pain and those emotions just isn't as easy as people might lead you to believe. You want to get past the pain. You want to begin to live your life again but it seems that no matter what you do you're faced with these emotions day in and day out. Sure, you might have a good day or two but when you least expect it, those feelings come to the surface again and you feel like you're right back where you were before.
How do other women treat the man that you're interested in? Do they go to him to have their computer's fixed? Try to see some other redeeming qualities that he posesses. Do other women laugh at his jokes? See beyond his sense of humor and discover what lies underneath that facade of comedy. Be different than the other girls and you will show him that you're different.
Yes, women can tell when a guy is just a little too into her and it freaks them out. Most of us are pretty damaged. All of us have some baggage and deep down inside our hearts we all see our own flaws. When someone makes a huge deal out of us it sends a message that there is something wrong with the other person. Women are even more in tune with this and without a word they can sense when you feel this way. Keep your head and keep your cool. Remember, she uses the toilet just like everyone else. She might be really cool but be sure that she is flawed in one way or another. In time, you will love those flaws too but for right now, she's not going to show you those flaws.
How can you make him feel at ease around you? Ask him some prying questions. Avoid the typical questions like about his hobbies or his work or what he likes to do to relax. Think about more probing questions and allow this line of questioning to lead you to who he really is. Comment about the things he talks about by agreeing that something that he tells you must have been difficult or fun depending upon the topic. Let him open up to you and express his feelings and emotions without judgement and you will find that he will feel drawn to you and want to be around you to talk and be himself.
While you might wish to be open with him and tell him everything about yourself, keep some of the more detailed portions of your life for later. Become a bit of a mystery to him and let him dig into your life. Let him struggle a little bit to get to know you. A woman that is a bit of a mystery to him will make him feel special when he does get to know you. Everybody loves a secret so keep a few secrets to yourself for him to find as your relationship progresses. It can be tempting to want to tell him about your entire life but it is more satisfying to man to find these things out himself, especially if there are few people that know these things about you.
Be different and stand out from the crowd by being yourself while understanding that a man needs to feel certain emotions to fall in love. Be understanding of what he needs and you will find that he becomes magnetically attracted to you very quickly. Every man wants and needs a woman in his life that can make him feel true love. You can be that woman. The benefits are apparent in a strong, healthy relationship based upon mutual attraction and respect. If you have found that perfect guy or you're already in a relationship with a guy that seems to be slipping away from you, try some of these tricks for making him love you. You won't be sorry.
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by Alicia Robertson
So you've met the perfect girl. She's everything that you've ever dreamed of and she's come out of nowhere. She's beautiful and clever and a lot of fun to be around. You think that you really might have found someone that you want to have a quality relationship with.
Now comes the tricky part. How do you ensure that she falls for you as hard as you've fallen for her? How do you keep from making the mistakes that other guys make?
Getting past that pain and those emotions just isn't as easy as people might lead you to believe. You want to get past the pain. You want to begin to live your life again but it seems that no matter what you do you're faced with these emotions day in and day out. Sure, you might have a good day or two but when you least expect it, those feelings come to the surface again and you feel like you're right back where you were before.
How do other women treat the man that you're interested in? Do they go to him to have their computer's fixed? Try to see some other redeeming qualities that he posesses. Do other women laugh at his jokes? See beyond his sense of humor and discover what lies underneath that facade of comedy. Be different than the other girls and you will show him that you're different.
Yes, women can tell when a guy is just a little too into her and it freaks them out. Most of us are pretty damaged. All of us have some baggage and deep down inside our hearts we all see our own flaws. When someone makes a huge deal out of us it sends a message that there is something wrong with the other person. Women are even more in tune with this and without a word they can sense when you feel this way. Keep your head and keep your cool. Remember, she uses the toilet just like everyone else. She might be really cool but be sure that she is flawed in one way or another. In time, you will love those flaws too but for right now, she's not going to show you those flaws.
How can you make him feel at ease around you? Ask him some prying questions. Avoid the typical questions like about his hobbies or his work or what he likes to do to relax. Think about more probing questions and allow this line of questioning to lead you to who he really is. Comment about the things he talks about by agreeing that something that he tells you must have been difficult or fun depending upon the topic. Let him open up to you and express his feelings and emotions without judgement and you will find that he will feel drawn to you and want to be around you to talk and be himself.
While you might wish to be open with him and tell him everything about yourself, keep some of the more detailed portions of your life for later. Become a bit of a mystery to him and let him dig into your life. Let him struggle a little bit to get to know you. A woman that is a bit of a mystery to him will make him feel special when he does get to know you. Everybody loves a secret so keep a few secrets to yourself for him to find as your relationship progresses. It can be tempting to want to tell him about your entire life but it is more satisfying to man to find these things out himself, especially if there are few people that know these things about you.
Be different and stand out from the crowd by being yourself while understanding that a man needs to feel certain emotions to fall in love. Be understanding of what he needs and you will find that he becomes magnetically attracted to you very quickly. Every man wants and needs a woman in his life that can make him feel true love. You can be that woman. The benefits are apparent in a strong, healthy relationship based upon mutual attraction and respect. If you have found that perfect guy or you're already in a relationship with a guy that seems to be slipping away from you, try some of these tricks for making him love you. You won't be sorry.
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